weird...
i drive 17's with low profile tires and hit small irregualrities all the time
haven't bent anything yet and haven't gotten a flat either. perhaps
your driving style needs work? ie don't hit the ruts at 80mph? i'm not
sure if that is the case, but i've see it often around here....
u might be able to downgrade your wheel to a 17" ... thus getting a
wider profile tire....
but again, this shouldn't really be happening, b/c there are many many many
people driving with larger wheels over worse ruts who don't have problems...
on a 04 too....there shouldn't be anything wrong with the car....arrrr this is a
tough problem.
is it the same ruts that cause the bends and flats?
what rim is it? all of em? 1 side?
make sure your tirepressure is correct - too low and u'll bend em for sure