thnks for posting and confirming that the phenomenon is actually happening. salvage? don't throw the baby with the bath water, anything can be fixed. does BMW have some culpability? damn right they do. there are reports of "metal fatigue" on cars with much lower mileage than yours. yours is not an isolated occurrance, see if you can compile a file of occurrances. do i think bmw will step up? good luck! i'd call your auto insurance carrier for their take on the matter, they may be able to cover it. at any rate, i'd start looking for a shop that can rebuild the rear end of the car, not necessarily back to stock. it didn't work the first time, why put it back the same way? hot rod builders do it all the time, cut out and replace/modify the rear frame section with an improved design. ususally to install a better suspension set-up, in this case you need the frame! unfortunatly, this kind of work isn't cheap. i have a feeling the "experts" are making it out to be a little worse than it really is, it just isn't a common repair, like an oil change. i just remembered a guy that had a pinto that separated the rear end, he put it back together with patch plates and sheet metal screws! and drove it for a good long time, it got rubber in 3rd gear! stock 4 cyl! please keep us posted as to how this all proceeds...