The E90 manuel says:
Breaking in the engine and differentials:
Up to 1250 miles/ 2000 km: Attempt to vary both engine and vehichle speeds, but refrain from exceeding an engine speed of 4500 rpm or a driving speed of 100 mph or 160 km/h.
Always obey all official speedlimits. (what????)
Avoind full-throttle operations and use the transmission's kick-down mode.
Once you have driven 1250 miles/2000 km, the engine ans vehichle speeds can be gradually increased.
I followed all this befor I even thought about opening here up. I was also told from the dealer not to use cruise control during this time. My car has over 5000km on it now and I've had abosoluty "0" problems till now. Other than my lady begging to drive too, but dont matter I dont let her much. [headbang]