harley, thanks for the input. i know where you are coming from. no one can never be sure, no not even yourself sometimes. but my point of view is, and i gotta give that to guessgirl, at a certain point, in a certain time, after a certain experience,you just have to start trusting. if i do not trust her for example in my position, in my eyes that relation ship wouldn´t be worth it. not for the possible betrayal, not for the possible one-night stand....but for myself not being able to develop a realtionship with that particular person that IS worth it.
no one shall take this as a guideline, hell no.this is all about yourself and it is right, better be safe than sorry. i am safe. i know i am safe!