Question about responsibility¿

What are your views on condoms

  • Never had sex without one.

    Votes: 1 11.1%
  • Slipped a couple of times.

    Votes: 5 55.6%
  • Sometimes it is okay. (not including VERY serious relationships, eg, Marriage)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Don't really find them neccesary.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Never had the chance to use one.

    Votes: 4 44.4%

  • Total voters
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PuShAkOv

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Now I can't get the image of you guys with your wives or girl freinds out of my head... [rolleyes]

I wouldn't share the stories weather or not I had them becuase of the flames I would get due to my young age, but I wouldn't do it without a condom, mostly for the pregnancy aspect of it. When married I would do it without a condom if we're either trying to have a kid or I'm complelty sure he's not sleeping around. I know you can't ever be complelty sure, but I think you just have to be able to trust people sometimes.
 
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harley, thanks for the input. i know where you are coming from. no one can never be sure, no not even yourself sometimes. but my point of view is, and i gotta give that to guessgirl, at a certain point, in a certain time, after a certain experience,you just have to start trusting. if i do not trust her for example in my position, in my eyes that relation ship wouldn´t be worth it. not for the possible betrayal, not for the possible one-night stand....but for myself not being able to develop a realtionship with that particular person that IS worth it.

no one shall take this as a guideline, hell no.this is all about yourself and it is right, better be safe than sorry. i am safe. i know i am safe!
 
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Wadula said:
yeah, just get on the plane LH 440 on 11/13/03 and fly with me to germany....(nice rime heh???) [hihi]
I'll be flying on 11/13/03, just not to Germany........[cheers] I need a smiley with a glass of champagne.........I'll miss ya baby........[:(]
 
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I prefer Jill. I never said I don't have "me" time, just that I've never had sex.
Hmm, my bowling ball is named Jill.

Anyway, still a virgin. Most of my friends are anti sex at this age so they would be against it. I sort of agree, sex in your teens is too soon. For the people I know who do do it I complain to them to use protection. It is stuped to risk something like that, and I cant stand it when people say "what about pulling out" or "can you get pregnet from the drip" stuped idiots, you CAN GET PREGNANT FROM ANYTHING!!! While I have never done it, I have more knowledge then most people who have, seriously.
 

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Guessgirl96 said:
Now I can't get the image of you guys with your wives or girl freinds out of my head... [rolleyes]

I wouldn't share the stories weather or not I had them becuase of the flames I would get due to my young age, but I wouldn't do it without a condom, mostly for the pregnancy aspect of it. When married I would do it without a condom if we're either trying to have a kid or I'm complelty sure he's not sleeping around. I know you can't ever be complelty sure, but I think you just have to be able to trust people sometimes.
Personally pregnancy is one of my more mild worries. I could be a father, and I could give the child a very decent life and a lot of love. That is the point. You have a chance at a wonderful life with a child. The chance of having a wonderful life with a sever deadly terminal disease is a little more slim. I would not expect a married couple to constantly use condoms, but if the person has already cheated once, in all probability, they would be more likely to do it again. I however cannot find a reason for both parties not to get tested upon entering a long term relationship. It isn't a matter of trust but rather a matter of trying to do what is right for both you, and the other person.
 
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i really believe in that coyotefreak. i mean, those kinds of questions are so often asked that it really scares me. how uneducated are those people? i mean, if i were a parent these days, sexual education would be on top of my list, next to driving and homework.

who knows this movie "kids" anyway? i think it was the name. the flick is several years old now and tells the story of a teen gang that parties like crazy and is unproceted while experienceing their sexuality. it's very shocking in my eyes.
 

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"I'm Casper the friendly ghost" That was a very good a f*cked up movie. It was right up there with Requeim. I actually have had parents want me to talk to their teenager because of my background with microbiology. I am extremely pessimistic attitude and they figure that since I am young the kids will actually listen to me. My ex-girlfriends father had me talk to his stepdaughter about it. Which is quite ironic for the fact that I was bangin' his daughter at the time.[rofl]
 

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The first words that the man ever said to me were "Hi, I'm George do you want to see my gun collection¿". It was one hell of a gun collection. The thing that REALLY worried me was the fact that he had a Crome ground breaking shovel and a long length of the fabrib ceremony tape rolled up sitting in the corner next to it.[paranoid]
 


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