I need your help everyone its a girl relationship problem... I have to post it here..
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I just think it's kind of weird that I'm usually the only Justin around, but there are two other Justin's actively participating in this thread. Isn't that nuts? I think it's crazy!
As are girls...
Just be glad you don't have an army of college girls with hearts over their eyes trying to set you up with girls you don't know... Then doing a bad job of it because they're not actually setting you up, just putting you in the general viscinity of this girl, then expecting things to happen... Then badgering you like there is actually something between you and this girl, whom you've still never talked to.
Believe you me--that's frustrating.
As are girls...
Just be glad you don't have an army of college girls with hearts over their eyes trying to set you up with girls you don't know... Then doing a bad job of it because they're not actually setting you up, just putting you in the general viscinity of this girl, then expecting things to happen... Then badgering you like there is actually something between you and this girl, whom you've still never talked to.
Believe you me--that's frustrating.
Ok i have to draw the line here! Absolutely NO Sonny and Cher is allowed on this thread! LOL ![[B)]](/images/smilies/icon_smile_blackeye.gif "Black Eye [B)]")
J/k
I agree with Lisha he is ok emotionally...on here is his way of dealing with the emotions that pop-up...a bmw blog if you will.....its therapeutic and we WILL respond positively....even its to tell him stop being a lovesick teen....most of us are adults and i would rather him get advice about stuff like this from us than some OTHER teenager that has no life experience..that being said I have a question for our young padawan: Doesnt the Jedi way frown on this whole thing? Didnt you learn anything from Anakin's aka Darth Vader's struggle? LOL..hmmmm
J/k I agree with Lisha he is ok emotionally...on here is his way of dealing with the emotions that pop-up...a bmw blog if you will.....its therapeutic and we WILL respond positively....even its to tell him stop being a lovesick teen....most of us are adults and i would rather him get advice about stuff like this from us than some OTHER teenager that has no life experience..that being said I have a question for our young padawan: Doesnt the Jedi way frown on this whole thing? Didnt you learn anything from Anakin's aka Darth Vader's struggle? LOL..hmmmm
Oh come on! This thread is very entertaining; I mean, aside all the hurt feelings and irresponsible actions, I think it's a real demonstration of how powerful those 'things' are which we can't see.
Moreover, every action has an effect. I would venture to say that reading this thread may have helped other members deal with certain stuff in his/her own personal life that they wouldn't be as willing to publicly announce on such a cool board. Or at the very least offered some members a time to reflect on his or her experiences and come to the conclusion that in the end it all worked out.
And don't tell me that none of you guys have ever gotten drawn into a soap opera (whether your own or a fictional one).
Sean
Moreover, every action has an effect. I would venture to say that reading this thread may have helped other members deal with certain stuff in his/her own personal life that they wouldn't be as willing to publicly announce on such a cool board. Or at the very least offered some members a time to reflect on his or her experiences and come to the conclusion that in the end it all worked out.
And don't tell me that none of you guys have ever gotten drawn into a soap opera (whether your own or a fictional one).
Sean
LOL - Lisha you are so funny!
I do disagree that older women are more evil though, usually they tell you what they want up front (because they know) where the younger ones drag you along until they find something better.
I can tell you guys that I have read this thread from the very beginning but decided not to respond because I just can't remember what it was like to have a girlfriend in HS. Besides you guys are already giving him good advice.
I do disagree that older women are more evil though, usually they tell you what they want up front (because they know) where the younger ones drag you along until they find something better.
I can tell you guys that I have read this thread from the very beginning but decided not to respond because I just can't remember what it was like to have a girlfriend in HS. Besides you guys are already giving him good advice.
It's funny...I have not posted once in this thread but have had a ball reading it. Personally, I am 24 and have gone on more dates than you can count on fingers and toes. And by dates, I don't mean meet at a bar, I mean dinner and a movie or just dinner. It's funny looking back on HS and knowing I had a similar reaction to "love" and girls. However, now that I am much more mature, I have a better understanding of "love."
Just like everyone else has stated, once you go to college you eventually realize how big this world really is, you begin to understand how small you once were in HS, and how small your problems were compared to your problems today. All I can say is enjoy life in general, especially when you are young and have less to worry about.
Also, I like Lisha's comment on going back to talking about cars, likes, dislikes, etc. I guarantee if we put a personal issues section on this board, it would be the most visited on the site. Why? Because people are interested in other people's lives. And I think we could all benefit from the info presented, just like I am sure a lot of us benefitted from this thread, in one way or another. Do you think a question on where to get an oil change would have generated almost 10 pages of comments.
Have a great week everyone![[:)]](/images/smilies/smile.png "Smile [:)]")
Just like everyone else has stated, once you go to college you eventually realize how big this world really is, you begin to understand how small you once were in HS, and how small your problems were compared to your problems today. All I can say is enjoy life in general, especially when you are young and have less to worry about.
Also, I like Lisha's comment on going back to talking about cars, likes, dislikes, etc. I guarantee if we put a personal issues section on this board, it would be the most visited on the site. Why? Because people are interested in other people's lives. And I think we could all benefit from the info presented, just like I am sure a lot of us benefitted from this thread, in one way or another. Do you think a question on where to get an oil change would have generated almost 10 pages of comments.
Have a great week everyone
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Well goody goody, update for all of you. For the past week actually since Im on spring break, things have been good so far, I have beebn accepted to some colelges of my choice but still waiting for UC Irvine and hope they accept me there. Overall I ahve been fine right now and getting better much faster now wit hthis two week break. I ahve taken lots of pictures and sold three prints and have made 150 dollars this week without work too. It feels really good. Plus I have started to ignore her. She caleld and I didnt even pick up. go me... I need to post more pics of my photo work on here to share with you all. Wel l Icant wait for college thats for sure. Much better and smarter girls there thats for sure. Im just not sure how this girl I was attracted to a 4.0 GPA girl that is pretty but yet she has a common sense of someone with a .0000000000000000001 GPA... lol oh well im startign to feel much better. getting more sleep, out more taking pics.. yes its getting better. Thanks you guys for all your advice. It helped me alot indeed.
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Wait till you get to college and find those girls who are looking to obtain their M-R-S. degree....
I'm rooting for this thread; I'd like to see it become a top three contender. This is actually the first thread I look for when I come online. It's just so entertaining and so full of helpful thoughts and advice.
I'm rooting for this thread; I'd like to see it become a top three contender. This is actually the first thread I look for when I come online. It's just so entertaining and so full of helpful thoughts and advice.