Let's do some clarification on this board for all you guys.................there is a huge difference in being a man, standing up and taking care of your family like a man.......I am a firm believer that the man should be the head of the household......as long as you are qualified........a man who makes decisions for the family in what is best for the family and not make decisions for his own personal use or gain.........a man should stand up for what he feels the way things should be........I wholeheartedly agree..........but it is true, men confuse being an asshole and a man being strong..........there is a huge difference..........and here is another female secret..............all females want the male to be the strong one, if you know what you're doing.........females need to feel secure, safe, protected, that's our nature.........when she goes to bed at night and feels those things, the next morning when she awakens starts a new beautiful day........the question to ask yourself..........am I qualified to be the lead..........some people are born followers and some people are born leaders............which one are you......being a leader in the family is not the same as being a leader in your job......don't confuse the two.......
Here's another thought............do you become the child in the relationship.......think about it, if you are or become the child in the relationship, how can you be the strong one?????
One more............know when to pick your battles..........everything is not worth fighting for.........if you pick at everything and some really petty things, it lessens everything........
There will be a test tomorrow............
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You made me laugh. But it is true though. What we all get is a package called "LOVE".
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